Introduction
A perfect life—interrupted Autism stormed into my world and interrupted my perfect life.
It is in my nature and upbringing to be an obedient daughter, a good student; a loving wife and a caring daughter-in-law. I always do what Iʼm supposed to do, I never thought I would be
rebellious until I decided to move back to Taiwan from Los Angeles with Leland, against all odds.
That decision was the first time I was defiant. I wanted to be myself – and a big part of me was already devoted to Leland.
When a child, I went to Dominican International School, Fuhsing Elementary School and Sacred Heart High School for Girls in Taiwan, then at age eighteen I went to the U.S. to study English
Literature at the Univesity of California, Berkeley. Afterwards, I received my MBA degree from the Univesity of California, Los Angeles, majoring in Business. I also got a real estate
license.
My life was very much by the book: study, work, marriage. Two years after college graduation, at age twenty-four, I married Philip Lee, an engineer working at the rocket center of Rockwell
International. Philip Lee has a Masterʼs degree from Stanford University.
After getting married, we had two children, Jason and Leland. My life had been on a smooth path, like a written script where I was destined to play a traditional womanʼs role. I did my best
to fit the role to take care of everything so everyone in my life was pleased. This is how it appeared from an outsiderʼs perspective.
Autism sneaked into my life like a thief, it stole the "perfect life" that I had meticulously established. Autism made me experience lifeʼs unpredictability and see lifeʼs imperfection. I
was forced to enter into a labyrinth – with no way out.
When Leland was diagnosed with severe autism, I didnʼt know he was gifted in art; it never occurred to me that he would be in the one percent "autistic genius" category. Yet, my fighting
spirit as a mother was ignited by the cruel fate that was dealt to me. Iʼm completely devoted to him; I make immeasurable efforts to defend him and help him to get rid of the "severe" label
in hopes of moving forward to "normalcy," little by little.